DM: Improve MariaDB permission handling

[dveeden]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #12207

What is changed and how it works?

• The version string is passed down to where it might be needed.
• The MariaDB mode of the parser is enabled (see parser: Add option to allow additional MariaDB syntax tidb#64625 )
• For this the pingcap/tidb dependency (and some related ones) are updated.

Check List

Tests

• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

Release note

The privilege checker was improved to better handle MariaDB specific privileges

Hold

Once the pingcap/tidb PR that this depends on has been merged this commit should be updated to:

• Use the commit from that PR for the parser (or newer)
• Remove the replace lines in go.mod for pingcap/tidb and the parser.

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[dveeden]

/type feature

[dveeden]

/unlabel type/feature

[dveeden]

/hold

[dveeden]

/cc @lance6716 @D3Hunter

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[dveeden]

/cc @OliverS929

[D3Hunter]

please fix this

[dveeden]

Once the commit in pingcap/tidb that's needed for this PR to function is merged I will do that. This is mentioned in the description and this is the reason for the hold label.