feat(cmd/serve): add in default-shutdown-timeout flag to increase shutdown timeout on http server shutdown

[ottingbob]

Under the hood ory/oathkeeper uses https://github.com/ory/graceful to shutdown the HTTP proxy. The graceful package provides a constant called DefaultShutdownTimeout which sets the timeout to be 5 seconds.

We have an application that can take up to 60 seconds to finish processing requests and we need a solution to be able to change this shutdown time in order for those requests to complete successfully.

As a result, we need a way to configure oathkeeper to bump up that timeout and the implementation has a flag that will be able to override the global variable set in the graceful package. Although this does not seem like the most ideal solution it provides a way for us to change that value.

Curious to hear suggestions on what may be an alternative approach to get a similar outcome & would be happy to try and make the changes needed for any feedback to help enable that.

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[ottingbob]

Curious to hear suggestions on what may be an alternative approach to get a similar outcome & would be happy to try and make the changes needed for any feedback to help enable that

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✅ Project coverage is 77.81%. Comparing base (8fc9b7a) to head (2d97c76).
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[aeneasr]

Awesome, thank you for your contribution! This looks pretty good and I have some ideas how to improve it further :)

[aeneasr]

In my view this should go into the config file instead