Update build tools in server

[CraigMacomber]

Description

Update build tools in server, aligning the versions and trust exclusions with client to ease adoption of pnpm 11 where trust policy is enforced for already installed packages.

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[CraigMacomber]

I had to add these to make the changed imports in the type tests not break the build. These projects, like protocol-definitions (same workaround in #27486) build the tests as part of the main build which causes this problem.