Don't log request bodies by default - make it optional in config

[taylars]

What this does

This PR makes Faraday body logging optional and disables it by default. It can be enabled by using the RUBYLLM_LOG_REQUEST_BODIES environment variable or setting log_request_bodies in the config.

Type of change

• Bug fix
• New feature
• Breaking change
• Documentation
• Performance improvement

Scope check

• I read the Contributing Guide
• This aligns with RubyLLM's focus on LLM communication
• This isn't application-specific logic that belongs in user code
• This benefits most users, not just my specific use case

Quality check

• I ran overcommit --install and all hooks pass
• I tested my changes thoroughly
  • For provider changes: Re-recorded VCR cassettes with bundle exec rake vcr:record[provider_name]
  • All tests pass: bundle exec rspec
• I updated documentation if needed
• I didn't modify auto-generated files manually (models.json, aliases.json)

API changes

• Breaking change
• New public methods/classes
• Changed method signatures
• No API changes

Related issues

Fixes #562