fix(SelectionManager): support full collection for select all functionality

[reidbarber]

Closes #9620

When you had a collection with 'all' selected inside an Autocomplete, then filtered down the collection and toggled an item, the 'all' selection internally was only including filtered items' keys, so you'd lose selection for all non-visible items.

This adds a fullCollection field so we can still access the unfiltered collection when toggling selection.

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
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• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

📝 Test Instructions:

Test new story:

1. Filter down the list by typing 'ba'
2. De-select one of the options
3. Clear the field
4. 'Foo' should still be selected

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[LFDanLu]

This seems to work well for fixed collections, but what do you think about async loaded items or if the wrapped collection has controlled items (i.e. the filtering is handled externally and items constantly changes causing fullCollection to change)? I suppose for that case it would reasonable to expect selected keys to be tracked outside the component itself?