chore: upgrade oxlint to 1.70.0 and enable react/react-compiler rule

[reidbarber]

Upgrades oxlint to 1.70.0, which includes the native react compiler rule.

Benchmark results on M4 Max MPB:

	Before (1.63.0 + JS plugin)	After (1.70.0 + native)
Wall time	~18.5s	~3.2s
CPU (user)	~31s	~7.3s
Speedup	—	5.8×

The native rule caught more violations than the JS plugin (585 total vs. 43 total).

Category	Count
Refs (ref access during render)	197
Immutability (mutating props/hook values)	150
Hooks (rules of hooks)	85
CapitalizedCalls	83
MemoDependencies	27
EffectSetState	10
PreserveManualMemo	9
StaticComponents, Purity, etc.	~24

I suppressed them in this PR, but we can decide if there's any we want to fix for now.

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

📝 Test Instructions:

🧢 Your Project:

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• View the S2 storybook
• View the S2 docs
• View the React Aria docs