update kandy dependencies

[AndreiKingsley]

Kandy dependcies updates from #1584

[Jolanrensen]

so, we only use kandy in notebooks? so only the -n version?

[AndreiKingsley]

No, kandy doesn't have a "-n" version now.

[Jolanrensen]

And that works fine? Does it include DataFrame as compileOnly() now?

[AndreiKingsley]

It works fine both in gradle and notebooks, but you need to add dataframe dependency first.
And no, DataFrame is included as implementation

[AndreiKingsley]

So we need to ask user to %use dataframe before kandy!

[Jolanrensen]

What about adding something like this to our jupyter integration?

onLoaded {
    val alreadyLoadedKandy = try {
        execute("kandyConfig").value
        true
    } catch (_: Exception) {
        false
    }

    if (alreadyLoadedKandy) {
        display(
            "Kandy was found on the notebook classpath. When combined with DataFrame, make sure DataFrame is loaded first; then Kandy.",
            null,
        )
    }
}

I think something like that could prevent some confusion :)

[koperagen]

Can we update to 0.8.3 too?