ripngd: fix data handling in several places (backport #21217)

[mergify]

Don't accept responses unless interface is configured; be more careful with route_node before dereferencing the info pointer; validate min and max packet size before processing.

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #21217 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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