Fix deadlock error from C++ 20

.github/workflows/cpp_extra.yml

@@ -337,19 +337,22 @@ jobs:
     if: >-
       needs.check-labels.outputs.force == 'true' ||
       contains(fromJSON(needs.check-labels.outputs.ci-extra-labels || '[]'), 'CI: Extra') ||
-      contains(fromJSON(needs.check-labels.outputs.ci-extra-labels || '[]'), 'CI: Extra: C++')
+      contains(fromJSON(needs.check-labels.outputs.ci-extra-labels || '[]'), 'CI: Extra: C++') ||
+      contains(join(github.event.pull_request.changed_files, ' '), 'cpp/src/arrow/flight/sql/odbc/')
     timeout-minutes: 240
+    permissions:
+      packages: write
     env:
       ARROW_BUILD_SHARED: ON
       ARROW_BUILD_STATIC: OFF
       ARROW_BUILD_TESTS: ON
       ARROW_BUILD_TYPE: release
       ARROW_DEPENDENCY_SOURCE: VCPKG
       ARROW_FLIGHT_SQL_ODBC: ON
-      ARROW_SIMD_LEVEL: AVX2
+      ARROW_HOME: /usr
       CMAKE_GENERATOR: Ninja
       CMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX: /usr
-      VCPKG_BINARY_SOURCES: 'clear;nuget,GitHub,readwrite'
+      VCPKG_BINARY_SOURCES: 'clear;nugettimeout,600;nuget,GitHub,readwrite'
       VCPKG_DEFAULT_TRIPLET: x64-windows
     steps:
       - name: Disable Crash Dialogs
@@ -368,10 +371,6 @@ jobs:
       - name: Download Timezone Database
         shell: bash
         run: ci/scripts/download_tz_database.sh
-      - name: Install cmake
-        shell: bash
-        run: |
-          ci/scripts/install_cmake.sh 4.1.2 /usr
       - name: Install ccache
         shell: bash
         run: |

cpp/src/arrow/flight/sql/odbc/odbc_impl/flight_sql_driver.cc

@@ -15,6 +15,8 @@
 // specific language governing permissions and limitations
 // under the License.
 
+#include <absl/synchronization/mutex.h>
+
 #include "arrow/flight/sql/odbc/odbc_impl/flight_sql_driver.h"
 
 #include "arrow/compute/api.h"
@@ -37,6 +39,8 @@ FlightSqlDriver::FlightSqlDriver()
   RegisterComputeKernels();
   // Register log after compute kernels check to avoid segfaults
   RegisterLog();
+  // GH-48637: Disable Absl Deadlock detection from upstream projects
+  absl::SetMutexDeadlockDetectionMode(absl::OnDeadlockCycle::kIgnore);
 }
 
 FlightSqlDriver::~FlightSqlDriver() {