Don't use prebuilds on pointer compression builds

[ronag]

One pointer compression builds of node, e.g. https://github.com/platformatic/node-caged gyp currently will incorrectly use prebuilds built with node versions without pointer compression, causing crashes.

We should check if the binary is built with pointer compression and either find a prebuild built with pointer compression or force a local build.

[ronag]

Note sure where this issue should live. Ref: nodejs/node-gyp#3291