Backport PR #43834: TYP: Fix typing of frame.explode (#43841)

Co-authored-by: Patrick Hoefler <61934744+phofl@users.noreply.github.com>

Author: meeseeksmachine

pandas/core/frame.py

@@ -8137,7 +8137,7 @@ def stack(self, level: Level = -1, dropna: bool = True):
 
     def explode(
         self,
-        column: Scalar | tuple | list[Scalar | tuple],
+        column: IndexLabel,
         ignore_index: bool = False,
     ) -> DataFrame:
         """
@@ -8147,7 +8147,7 @@ def explode(
 
         Parameters
         ----------
-        column : Scalar or tuple or list thereof
+        column : IndexLabel
             Column(s) to explode.
             For multiple columns, specify a non-empty list with each element
             be str or tuple, and all specified columns their list-like data
@@ -8229,7 +8229,7 @@ def explode(
         if not self.columns.is_unique:
             raise ValueError("columns must be unique")
 
-        columns: list[Scalar | tuple]
+        columns: list[Hashable]
         if is_scalar(column) or isinstance(column, tuple):
             columns = [column]
         elif isinstance(column, list) and all(