[EPIC] Sort-merge join (SMJ) execution improvements

[mbutrovich]

I have a number of things I'd like to keep improving for SMJ, particularly because DataFusion Comet still relies on it heavily for larger-than-memory joins.

• Specialized stream for semi/anti SMJ perf: specialized SemiAntiSortMergeJoinStream #20806
• Remove semi/anti logic from existing SMJ stream, and optimize simplified logic perf: sort-merge join (SMJ) batch deferred filtering and move mark joins to bitwise stream. Near-unique LEFT and FULL SMJ 20-50x faster #21184
• move Mark join logic to the Semi and Anti stream, since the logic is similar perf: sort-merge join (SMJ) batch deferred filtering and move mark joins to bitwise stream. Near-unique LEFT and FULL SMJ 20-50x faster #21184
• More use of Arrow-rs DynComparator where appropriate to reduce per-row type matching perf: use DynComparator in sort-merge join (SMJ), microbenchmark queries up to 12% faster, TPC-H overall ~5% faster #21484