according to InCallService docs
This service is implemented by any app that wishes to provide the user-interface for managing phone calls. Telecom binds to this service while there exists a live (active or incoming) call, and uses it to notify the in-call app of any live and recently disconnected calls. An app must first be set as the default phone app (See getDefaultDialerPackage()) before the telecom service will bind to its InCallService implementation.
This doesn't mean that a default app must implement this service.
Because of this assumption in VertexOS, when setting a 3rd party dialer app from Google Play as the default dialer app, the incoming call screen stops appearing (both full screen and header).
This doesn't happen on stock Android.