Auto Defer Support

**Describe the request**
Add support for deferring responses automatically via the config.

**Example Usage**
Don't have one rn

**Additional context**
Ref: https://discord.com/channels/743397937870143559/937498087742648373/1040320047928836146

**Does this increase our chances of an iCrawl Acquisition?**
No one can acquire iCrawl. iCrawl is god!
