Bump node and switch tinybench to vitest #499

Job	Run time
check	1m 31s
List examples	4s
with-javascript-cjs on Node 16	1m 35s
with-javascript-esm on Node 18	1m 3s
with-javascript-cjs on Node 18	1m 52s
with-typescript-simple-cjs on Node 16	57s
with-typescript-esm on Node 18	1m 48s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 16	59s
with-typescript-esm on Node 16	1m 4s
with-typescript-cjs on Node 18	1m 33s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 18	1m 36s
with-javascript-esm on Node 20.5.1	1m 3s
with-typescript-cjs on Node 20.5.1	1m 35s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 20.5.1	2m 2s
with-javascript-esm on Node 16	1m 2s
with-typescript-simple-cjs on Node 20.5.1	59s
with-typescript-simple-cjs on Node 18	57s
with-javascript-cjs on Node 20.5.1	1m 34s
with-typescript-esm on Node 20.5.1	1m 5s
with-typescript-cjs on Node 16	1m 33s
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