Bump node and switch tinybench to vitest #495

Job	Run time
List examples	4s
check	1m 27s
with-typescript-esm on Node 20.5.1	1m 47s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 20.5.1	1m 46s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 16	1m 19s
with-javascript-esm on Node 18	2m 9s
with-javascript-esm on Node 16	1m 25s
with-javascript-esm on Node 20.5.1	1m 59s
with-typescript-esm on Node 16	44s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 18	1m 48s
with-typescript-esm on Node 18	2m 32s
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